Wellness Mind & Body The Most Popular Way to Meet a Significant Other Has Nothing to Do With Online Dating The case for dating old-school style. By Blake Bakkila Blake Bakkila Blake Bakkila is a writer and editor with over 5 years of experience in media. She has held positions at Carats & Cake, What to Expect, Good Housekeeping, Health, Real Simple, and People. health's editorial guidelines Published on February 1, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Is it time to say so long to swiping? While dating apps are as popular as ever, they might not be the best way to meet a potential romantic partner. That's the takeaway from a survey, which found that only 8% of people polled said that they hooked up with their significant other via online dating or a dating app. What was the most common way for couples to meet? Through mutual friends, according to the survey, which was conducted by the market research company ReportLinker in 2017. An impressive 39% of respondents replied that they met their spouse this way—just like Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. Meeting at work came in second place, with 15% of respondents answering that they met their significant other at the office. Next on the list was in a bar or public area (12%), through a sport/religion/hobby events (9%), family (7%), and school (6%). Just 1% of poll takers said that they met their beloved at a speed-dating event. The poll results cast doubt on the prospect of finding lasting love online and instead relying on friends (or your local gathering spot or pub) to help you find The One. When asked what they thought was the main drawback of online dating, 30% of single respondents said that potential love interests on sites and apps were "not serious" and 21% said "more lies." Still, singles continue to search for a significant other digitally. Respondents who said that they were currently dating online had a profile up on an average of 2.4 websites. The results were based on replies from 501 singles and 551 coupled-up people in the U.S. Speaking of couples, the survey also found that 6% of the people who described themselves as having a spouse were still registered on a dating website or app. 4 Expert Tips for Building a Lasting Relationship Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit