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Do it Faster: Get Over a Grudge

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Argue the other side

Expectations we put on others are often at the root of hurt feelings, what Friedman calls should-ing—“She should have RSVP’d sooner.” Accept that there’s more than one way for people to act, and it’ll be easier to move on.

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