29 Days to a Healthier Relationship
Realize that all couples fight...
...but once you've settled your grievances, you've set the stage for amazing makeup sex. It's natural to feel turned on after an argument adrenaline and dopamine (your hormone of desire) levels rise, giving you that excited feeling.
One caveat: If it always takes a blowout to get you two connecting, then you should seriously consider talking to a couple's counselor.
Next: Work on yourself first