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A Bar Is Not the Place to Tell Your Date You Have an STD


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"I meet a guy, I really like him, and I want to go home with him. What do I do?" (1:39)
Sex therapist Sari Cooper sketches out a scenario that's familiar to people who are dating with STDs.

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Say you're dating and you have herpes, HPV, HIV, or another STD. How do you tell someone new about it? Sex therapist Sari Cooper says talking straight is really important—explain what you're doing to take care of yourself and protect your sex partners. But think twice before blurting it out if you've both been drinking or the scene feels otherwise outside your control.