How to break the news
Unlike sexually transmitted diseases, psoriasis is not contagious. But as with STDs, most people want to explain psoriasis to people they're dating so that they're prepared when they see it and understand they can't catch it. That's tricky, because you may fear that telling the truth is a one-way ticket to rejection.
“The common question people ask is, will my condition be the deal-breaker?” says Allan F. Chino, PhD, a psychologist in private practice with Functional Pain Solutions in Tigard, Ore., and an assistant clinical professor of medicine at Oregon Health & Science University in Portland. “If it is," says Chino, "it’s a sign that the relationship wasn’t meant to be.” In that way, the disease serves almost as a litmus test for future mates by separating the good from the bad right out of the gate.
If clothing covers your lesions, you have a little more time to broach the topic. Here's how to do it when you're ready.