That is the number-one question, and the answer is I eat a little bit of everything and not a lot of anything. Everything in moderation. I know thats really hard for people to understand, but I grew up in an Italian family where we didnt overdo anything. We ate pasta, yes, but not a lot of it. Pasta doesnt make you fat. How much pasta you eat makes you fat.
I dont believe in kids cookbooks. Jade eats what we eatfood the entire family eats. I grew up eating what my parents put in front of me.
Doing your homework ahead of time. Stock up your pantry and your freezer with things that arent perishable: Your favorite jar of tomato sauce that lists "tomato" as the first ingredient, lots of grains, olive oils, vinegars, tomato pastes, onions, shallots. When you go to the store, you only have to pick up meats and produce.
I wouldnt be who I am today without my family. Im a product of three people: my grandfather, who had the passion. His family owned a pasta factory in Naples before World War II, so he had a real passion for Italian food. My Aunt Raffy, whos on the show a lot, is the creative one. She brings me recipes from all over the world. And my mom. She had four children and had to get food on the table as quickly as possible. My mom [taught me] speed.
I do yogastretching and core work. Every morning I do sun salutations. Sometimes I do a little meditation. My sister-in-law introduced me to Deepak Chopras website, which sends you daily reminders. I try to center myself because Im around a lot of different energies, and it gets a little crazy and chaotic.
Almonds are my staple. Theyre nonperishable and can sit in my bag for the entire book tour. Plus lots of water, andIm not gonna lieAmericanos [an espresso-based drink] everywhere I go, with a little agave because I dont do sugar.
A few years ago at a book signing in Seattle, a young guy asked me if I would sign his salami. I just looked at him like, "Oh my God," and then he pulled out a real salami from behind his back. It was cute. It was definitely a fraternity dare because all of his buddies were laughing in the background.
When youre not on the road, whats your fitness routine?
I do yoga with an instructor for an hour three times a week. I started doing yoga when I was pregnant, and I was told by my OB/GYN that I could no longer go to the gym because my daughter wasnt growing enough. I was a big gym rat for a long timetreadmill, elliptical machine, StairMaster, weights. But I started doing yoga and paddleboarding, which is peaceful, almost like a meditation. And I go hiking.
Lots of water. Two liters of water a day at least. And lots of olive oil. It keeps my skin healthy. It keeps my whole [self] healthy and glistening.
I do use it on my face. I have a whole 30-minute regime that I cannot go to bed without doing. And I keep my skinespecially my face and neckout of the sun. My brother died of melanoma eight years ago, and Ive got SPF on all the time, 24-7. It makes you realize, the sun is a wonderful thing, but it can be a very devastating thing. So sunscreen is key, and a lot of laughter, too. Laughing is so, so, so important in your life. It keeps you happy.
Im happiest when Im in my own kitchen without any cameras. Im cooking for my daughter and husband, and theyre hanging out with me.
I cuss a lot. People say to me, "A pretty girl like yourself and that mouth?!" I have a really bad potty mouth; theres no question. Ive had to try and scale it back because my daughter will copy everything.
I was so nervous to turn 40, but the last year and a half has been the most fun I have ever had. I became a lot more confident. It happens to a lot of women. All of a sudden you realize, Im comfortable in my own skin. I know Im not going to ever be Cindy Crawford or Elle Macpherson. I want to tell Jade to enjoy every moment of life because its so fleeting and insecurity is such a waste of time.
It has become trickier to get Jade excited about mealtime. I have to reinvent the wheel each time to keep it interesting. And for my husband as wellI came up with a global chapter with some of Todds favorite Thai dishes. Lots of little fun twists that youve never seen from methats what makes this book different.