A: Well, first and foremost, Steve Carell. I love him, and he's so gifted: His sense of timing and the quality of his humor and the depth of it. He grounds everything emotionally. And the script is delightful, and super, super funny. It's about people who have been married for 25 years, and it's all kind of falling apart, and what happens in a relationship with its ups and downs.
A: Oh my God. [Puts head in hands.] The older you get, I think, the less appealing tragedy becomes.
A: Life is hard, and life is sad, and it's challenging, and I think that all the burnish that tragedy has when you're 22it really is different when you're 50. You're really kind of like, "You know, I think I'd rather laugh.”
A: I think if I have any strength, it's the ability to read scripts well. There have been scripts that I've readlike Boogie Nightsand said, "This is brilliant.” Far From Heaven was that way, The End of the Affair, The Kids Are All Right. I'm just a really good script-reader.
A: I never feel confident! I don't know that there's anybody who does. I mean, you don't look around the red carpet thinking, There's a lot of confident people out here.
A: Let me tell you something: The big thing about being 50 is the bar is much lower. People are like, "Oh my God, you look great!” So that's sort of good. [Laughs.] I have very strong hair, that's just genetics. And I credit my mother for keeping us out of the sun.
Q: You seem so comfortable with your body on screen. Are you? How have you managed not to be neurotic in such a merciless industry?
A: Look, I think we're all neurotic. I mean, you know, to be totally honest, I just came back from vacation, where I was at a breakfast buffet, and I'd eat pastry after pastry after pastry. So as a consequence, today when I have this photo shoot, I'm like a few pounds over what I'd like to be, and I'm just like, "Oh, crap.” So yeah, I do think about that kind of stuff. But I try to keep things in perspective somewhat, too.
A: I think the idea is to provide healthy foods, and let them have a treat. And it's worked. Both of my kids are really active, and they're good eaters, the kind of kids who will take an ice cream cone and say, "I'm finished,” and throw it away. I'm like, "I'll eat that.” [Laughs.] That's my problem.
A: I do Ashtanga yoga three times a week, and I run a couple of times a week, too. I really like yoga; I enjoy the actual doing of it, so it doesn't feel like the agony of the gym felt like to me.
A: Spinning. My girlfriend was like, "Let's go Spinning!" I went and was like, "Oh my God, my head hurts from the yelling and yelling and yelling." It was too much stimulation for me. My friend loved it because it got her energized and excited, but for me I just got overwhelmed. Yoga is quiet and focused.
A: My feeling is live and let live. But some of those procedures that make you look youngerI don't know that they really made anybody look younger. I think most of the time they made you look like you've had something done to your face. Even with the laser stuff, the skin becomes so shiny. It's like nothing sticks to it. It's just shiny, shiny skin, and it doesn't have a normal patina, so you're like, "What's the matter with them?" Look, it's hard to age. Let people do what they want to do, but I do think that a new normal sometimes starts to exist where the cosmetic surgery itself starts to look normal, and we lose track of what a real face is like.
A: When I was a kid, I moved all over the country, and the thing that really struck me is that a lot of us are under the illusion that we all get a fair shake growing up in this country, and it was pretty clear to me at an early age that you don't. To be poor in this country is to kind of hide in plain sight. Health care is very uneven in places where there are just no doctors and no hospitals. And the Children's Health Fund has wonderful mobile-health units, which go to those areas.
A: He's a great cook. And he's incredibly sensitive to other people, to the emotional temperature of a room. He's very, very sensitive that way, which is kind of extraordinary, and really unusual in a man, I think.
A: I understand that. I don't feel relaxed if things are messy in my house. I have to make the beds, I have to do the dishes. And if there's clutter, I love to throw stuff out. Love it.