How to Say Just the Right Thing in an Awkward Conversation

Expert tips on how to handle awkward social situations.

Facing an awkward conversation? Use these tips from Debra Fine, author of The Fine Art of Small Talk, and youll never scramble for the right words.

When youre in the elevator:
No need to talk to a stranger. But if its someone you know or, worse, your boss, say, “Hi,” then “Have a great day” as you get off. Youre being polite but not pressuring her into a stop-and-chat.

When a friend is going through a tough time:
Whatever it is, she no doubt needs to be heard. So ask how shes doing, and say “That sounds frustrating,” or “What happened next?” to let her know you are truly interested.

When youre at a party with strangers:
Lead with what brought you both there. Ask “How do you know the host?” Common ground is a great ice-breaker.
Kimberly Holland
Last Updated: October 20, 2009

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