You love courtship. “For these lovers, the chase is a lot of it,” Schwartz says. You’re easily bored in long-term relationships, though, and your eye may roam.
Keep it healthy: First, avoid situations that could lead to affairs. “Don’t have a drink with that interesting colleague,” Schwartz says. “Take temptation out of your life.” Instead of looking for excitement outside your relationship, try doing new things (salsa dancing, anyone?) with your partner, so you can see him in a fresh light.
Love seems to creep up on you. One day you think, “Wow, I’ve really been spending a lot of time with Jack,” then realize you’re in love. In the long term, your relationship may be quiet, but it’s strong.
Keep it healthy: Don’t let your thing get too platonic. “You need moments of romance,” Schwartz says. Planning a special dinner for two or just planting a passionate kiss on him once in a while shows your partner (and reminds you, too) that you think he’s sexy and exciting.
