Knowing your style can help you evaluate your relationship, says Susan Hendrick, PhD. It’ll help you have more realistic expectations about how love happens for you and how it evolves. If you understand that it’s normal for a loving couple to have a platonic relationship, for instance, you’ll know not to worry if there aren’t fireworks.
So what kind of lover are you? Check out these descriptions to find your personal style, and learn how you can keep your relationship healthy and happy.