Andrew Macpherson

I’m back in therapy, figuring out how to date again.

My therapist told me, “You have to be complete on your own.” Meaning: You have to be fulfilled—physically, mentally, emotionally, and artistically.

It’s so easy to lose yourself in a relationship. But it’s not about somebody else completing you. It’s about what you guys can share.

My tendency is to jump ahead in the relationship. So my friend texted me: “Keep the wedding dress off!”

You know, don’t move too quickly. Because my goal is not to run off and get remarried.

Whatever happens, happens. I could never get married again, I could get married again and have more kids.

I have no concept or plan at this point. I’m really striving to stay in the now and enjoy it.

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